Inside Relationships
An informative journey into the secrets of personal relationships guided by Accredited Mental Health Social Worker David of Milan Coaching and his partner of 25 years Debra. Each week David and Debra are joined by a special guest from a many different backgrounds ranging from Doctors to Hypnotherapists, to discuss and offer insight into a great variety of interesting relationship topics such as boundaries, commitment, honesty, fidelity, mental health, family, communication, values, narcissism, trauma, longevity, safety, beginning relationships & even how & when to finish a relationship.
Episodes you may like:
Special guest Russell talks about his experience and challenges after being placed in more than 30 foster homes.
David facilitates in-depth discussion around how the foster system affected Russell’s adult relationships; positive and not so good.
David discusses how you form relationships when you are removed from your parents as an infant?
How do you recognise and break the cycle of abuse when you have grown up in a difficult environment with complex trauma?
Longer term impacts on trust and not understanding love.
What happens when you can't tell people what happened to you or how you feel.
How the body processes emotion and how to address the past
The difference between suppressing feelings and expressing feelings.
How do you forgive? How important is love for healing? How do you develop trust? How do you repair broken relationships?
David and Debra have a chat with filmmaker Jeremy Mullaly of Ithaka Media about his take on on-screen relationships, including some impacts of reality TV on relationships. For the stars, questions are raised regarding whether reality TV causes trauma and how far is too far for ratings? Using the example of MAFS, the team ponders what is reality TV teaching young people about their relationships and are we normalising bad behaviour with ‘reality TV’. For parents, David talks about how to start to have a safe conversation with your family regarding what relationship behaviour that is being seen on TV.
David talks with Clinical Hypnotherapist Jamina Tubbing about the main attachment styles and how do we recognise them? How do our childhood attachment experiences set us up for adult relationships?
How does our attachment style affect how we engage with friends and significant others?
David and Jamina discuss the specialty area of what to do about attachment difficulties within a relationship. They explore how to change your emotional and cognitive state when you have an attachment style that is not working well for you. Also, David and Jamina talk about teamwork when attempting to change a relationship for the better and the importance of taking into consideration as many factors as we can.